with my Ex that I abused verbally and physically, are we get past this to reconcile or not?

Hi all, if you remember my posting from Feb 1rst you'll know that I was verbally abusing the love of my life without realizing it. He walked out on me on January 31rst after 2 years. Since then we have been on the phone every single day practically having 3 to 4 hour discussions/spats to the wee hours of the morning. He says he can't say we won't reunite in the future but for now he's working on himself and tending to neglected business. He also spent many hours venting making sure I was clear on the hundreds of ways I hurt him and broke his spirit. He is very sensitive and intelligent and I respect him more now than I have showed in the past. I always respected him because he is an awesome man but my anger would overtake my common sense back then. I have since then taken my situation very seriously seeking weekly counseling and spiritual istance to rid myself of the horrible 'Angry' spirit that has shook my home life to it's core. Initially, me ex fiance (he is a guy and I am the woman) would not allow me to see him. He said my physical presence made him feel awful and many other mean things (I cried but I couldn't blame him). About 10 days later he finally saw me once and told me he was not coming back. I cried for hours, he just stood there asking me to go home. He stayed on the phone with me all night that night. I didn't contact him at all for a week or so, then I called to ask about canceling the cell phone account we have together (he asked for this after the break up). Suddenly, he said he wants to pay the bill for now so I said okay, he said he will cut it off next month. He is to give the money on Thursday. I am very confused but I am following his lead. Now it seems we have managed to come past the extreme emotional part of this break up because after an all night argument night before last (him scolding me about how I treated him) he decided to come back home for something yesterday morning (he has nothing here and took all of his clothes the week after the break up)... he claimed he had something here (we both new that wasn't true). I let him in and we chatted briefly, we hugged and he held me and smelled me for what seemed like forever and soon after ended up in several ual situations. Following the he got up and played some music he wanted me to hear while I got dressed. It was very nice and peaceful. We drove out and had a quick lunch then I dropped him off to the relative's home where he is now staying (he took the day off from work). We had an awesome hour and a half together. We even held hands for a minute. I touched him a lot and was grateful that he finally let me. My question is, I know he has not finished working through his emotions and neither have I, but is it possible that we could get back together at some point? I am so sad without him and I am in repentance mode and am in the serious process of learning to correct my horrible verbal abuse and fits of anger where I slap, hit, kick and punch. I AM VERY SERIOUS ABOUT THIS. I cannot express that enough. Of the 2 years we were together, I hit him 4 times and cannot believe that I was such an awful person verbally as well (when I was angry) like Jekyll and Hyde.. Other times I was a loving, caring, resourceful and fun filled spirited mom and fiance (so weird looking at it now). I have changed my life drastically over these 4 weeks and I wonder if he can tell. He says he will see me on Thursday to pay his cell phone bill that we share together and that was about it. What can I do if anything to get him back so we can continue to build our otherwise really great relationship or friendship (or I should say, have a second time around new relationship) I really can't believe we finally saw one another, had , drove for a while and had a quick lunch. I know I some may conclude that I didn't deserve that and that might be true. I didn't mention anything about getting back together but I showed in my actions that I missed him and I asked him many times before to please come home. I'm glad he didn't and especially glad that he had the courage to walk away from me so I could face my demons and deal with myself. It was the best thing he could have ever done for me to make me see the extent of my error. He knows I want him back and says he loves me like no other. I need your advice now. I know the longer we're apart the higher the risk of him meeting someone new but what can I do if anything and please describe to me what you think about his behavior, does he seem to be forgiving me? Thank you guys... I really want my family back together.